I recall the moment, while talking to Krishna, when we felt that why we friends are not able to communicate often. Is it the lack of interest over a period of time?
Definitely not, it’s our commitments towards life have made us more responsible, occupying major part of time, fixing our priorities, adding new and latest companions in the social circle, etc. etc.. that limits or restricts the communication with old friends.
So it is rightly said that strength of friendship emanates from the background at times of absence of communication.
Like without knowing anything about the art or artist, one cannot understand Modern Art, in this fast-changing world, one would prefer to stick to Antiques, which already found a place and have their class and value of their own.
Yet, commitments are commitments and priorities are priorities which became part of our life.
when v think about our routine work it always leaded by our knowledge.but the genuine relationship like friendship continues only by intelligence.bcoz there are some up and downs in everybody's life. beyond that v keep high priority to our friends then only v lead good friendship.above all in my point of view i am not having negetive thoughts about my friends. i have no deep friends apart from my college days.its enough for me . . i am watching the friends by heart not by my mind.i am having no difference with my girl friends and boy friends. all are my friends.anwar,krishna,seeni and viji,shanthi, chitra all are same to me.above all i would like keep honeybees than bees
அதாவது கூடிப் பழகுதலும், அடிக்கடி சந்தித்தலும், ஒருவரையொருவர் விசாரித்தலும் மட்டுமே நட்பாகிவிடாது. கூடிப் பழகாவிட்டாலும், மனதால், உணர்ச்சியால் ஒன்றுபடுவதே உண்மையான நட்பு.
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Thank you for posting regarding friendship on friendship day. Nice and mosot welcome for your others posts also.
I recall the moment, while talking to Krishna, when we felt that why we friends are not able to communicate often. Is it the lack of interest over a period of time?
Definitely not, it’s our commitments towards life have made us more responsible, occupying major part of time, fixing our priorities, adding new and latest companions in the social circle, etc. etc.. that limits or restricts the communication with old friends.
So it is rightly said that strength of friendship emanates from the background at times of absence of communication.
Like without knowing anything about the art or artist, one cannot understand Modern Art, in this fast-changing world, one would prefer to stick to Antiques, which already found a place and have their class and value of their own.
Yet, commitments are commitments and priorities are priorities which became part of our life.
But still, old friends are the best antiques!!!
As often told by Anvar, "ஒருவர் பொறை இருவர் நட்பு", let's allow our friends take their own time to communicate.
Meanwhile, let's find time to communicate with our friends.
Yes I accept, your points. In short, TIME is the answer for all the questions/reason for all the actions.
One thing we should remember, we will never find time for anything. If we want time, we must make it.
There is great saying : Time is all you have. Master your time and you master your life. So, Time = life.
Like George Bernard Shaw said - "Everything happens to everybody sooner or later if there is time enough."
Friends! Make note of it!
when v think about our routine work it always leaded by our knowledge.but the genuine relationship like friendship continues only by intelligence.bcoz there are some up and downs in everybody's life. beyond that v keep high priority to our friends then only v lead good friendship.above all in my point of view i am not having negetive thoughts about my friends. i have no deep friends apart from my college days.its enough for me . . i am watching the friends by heart not by my mind.i am having no difference with my girl friends and boy friends. all are my friends.anwar,krishna,seeni and viji,shanthi, chitra all are same to me.above all i would like keep honeybees than bees
இதைப் படிக்கும்போது ஒரு குறள் நினைவுக்கு வருகிறது.
புணர்ச்சி பழகுதல் வேண்டா வுணர்ச்சிதா
னட்பாங் கிழமை தரும்.
அதாவது கூடிப் பழகுதலும், அடிக்கடி சந்தித்தலும், ஒருவரையொருவர் விசாரித்தலும் மட்டுமே நட்பாகிவிடாது. கூடிப் பழகாவிட்டாலும், மனதால், உணர்ச்சியால் ஒன்றுபடுவதே உண்மையான நட்பு.
என்னால் இதை உணர முடிகிறது.
Thank you friend!!
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